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Coffy Time Blues :
Writing from a Spiritual Source
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ESSAYS: (I will start this out with one of my own sermons)
Sermon GNC 2/23/14 On Perfection
I wanted to talk about perfection, and what it means to be “perfect as our Heavenly father is perfect.” But then, I was severely challenged in my own perfection this morning by my brother who has some excuse for the way he acts. He is dying of liver disease and also suffers from manic depression. While I was sitting there at my computer, still working on my sermon-- he messaged me, calling me all of my previous names, and telling me how imperfect I am because I never talk about my ex-husbands on facebook, and I don’t call him, and I don’t visit our mother enough. He sent me a picture of my ex-husband and asked if my grandson was proud of me for being a lesbian.
I found myself entering one of those never-ending self-justifying conversations that I was always doomed to lose—or at least, never bring to a close. I was getting angry. Jesus said we should love our enemies and here I was having a hard time loving my own brother. So I took a break and looked at facebook. I found that the televangelist Joel Osteen had some advice posted.
“You have a choice. You can give away your joy when things don’t go your way, or you can make a much better decision and choose to live each day happy.
Don’t talk about your shortcomings and what you don’t have. God is not interested in that. Simply use what you do have and let Him do the rest.”
Thank you Joel. When I read the gospel for today, and thought about the meaning of being as perfect as Jesus, I had a vision pop up in my mind. Maybe some of you remember a movie or the book it was based on, The Joy Luck Club. I saw in my vision the scene of the New Year’s crab dinner cooked by Jing-Mei’s mother for her family and friends.
The back-story is that Chinese consider it bad luck to eat a crab that was not alive and perfect when it was cooked. As they shopped for the crabs, one lost a leg and later died before being cooked. But they had to use it or there would not have been enough for all the guests. Jing-Mei has always felt she was not good enough in her mother’s eyes, and that she was especially not good enough compared to her very successful cousin Waverly.
When the crab is served on a big platter, Waverly takes the biggest crab, and gives the second biggest to her husband, third biggest to her own mother. All the other guests take the best remaining crabs in turn until only Jing-Mei and her mom are left with the two smallest crabs, one of which is the bad-luck crab. Jing-mei tries to take the bad-luck crab, but her mom takes it from her and then throws it away when no one is looking. Throughout the dinner, cousin Waverly is pretending to be kind but is actually saying very cruel things in a clever way. At the end of the dinner, Jing-Mei is washing up, in tears. She tells her mom she is sorry for being a disappointment to her and her mom says this:
“That bad crab, only you tried to take it. Everybody else wants best quality. You, your thinking different. Waverly took best-quality crab. You took worst, because you have best-quality heart. You have style no one can teach. Must be born this way. I see you.”
That is being perfect. That is being perfect like Jesus.
I remember when Jerry Brown won the election for mayor and instead of a big fancy ball for his rich supporters, he had an open barbeque in a parking lot and everyone, including the homeless was invited. It was a wonderful celebration, and there was plenty of barbequed chicken for everyone. I bet it still cost less than the fancy ball for rich people would have.
That is being perfect, like Jesus.
I once worked with a Jehovah Witness who tried hard to convert me every time we worked together. I never really minded because I knew that in his heart he thought he was doing as God wished. As a part of these conversations, he told me that he didn’t miss birthdays and other holidays because in his church, they had spontaneous parties with huge dinners and gifts for each other that they called “love feasts.” The purpose was to let the other members of the community know they loved each other. They were practicing Paul’s advice to the Corinthians, living the reality of being God’s temple and knowing God’s spirit lived within them.
That is being perfect, like Jesus.
My son Antonio is not a Christian—he might be a sort of Buddhist. But he doesn’t really practice any religion and is unsure about the existence of God. He has struggled all his early life, and put himself through college. I was not always there for him. But he has forgiven me. He says that he and his brother talked about it and decided they know I loved them—and that I had always loved them, so that was my only job and I had succeeded. Now, he takes care of me. He gave me a car several years ago and every time it breaks down he pays the bill to have it fixed. He has paid close to $20,000 in car repairs over the years. He never makes me feel bad about it—he does sometimes say he wished I would give him warning before the car breaks down and a couple of times he said I should get a new car but he always fixes the car anyway. I can rely on him; he takes care of me, even though I was not a perfect mother. I know he loves me.
That is being perfect, like Jesus.
My partner Nellie acts very gruff but I know she collects clothes and toys and has for several years. She takes them to Terra Bella, a farming community near Porterville, and gives them to the poor people. Some of these people are illegal aliens; many of them are farm workers. She first started this when we lived there and down the street was a family of illegal immigrants, who worked as farm workers and lived in a home, rented from the boss at an exorbitant rate. The home had rats, and holes in the wall to the outside where animals could enter. It had only two bedrooms for a family with five kids and the rent was as high as a nice three-bedroom house in the area. Nellie helped that family get out of that situation without immigration being called on them. She has seen kids grow up who call her grandma Nellie because she has regularly visited and brought toys, clothes, food, and treats to them for many years. Some of them would not have any nice clothes, or any treats or toys, without Nellie. They would not have any grandmother, because they came here to make a better life and left grandmothers behind. She doesn’t make a big deal—most people don’t know she does this. But I know it—I see her. She is practicing the law from Leviticus, “to love your neighbor as yourself; to leave the fallen grapes of the vineyard for the poor and the alien.”
That is being perfect, like Jesus.
I saw on the news a little boy who invented a Brail printer using Legos. It is amazing that he could make something so complicated using simple toys as a base. But what is even more amazing is that he announced that his technology would be free to blind people who need and could use it. He could be making a lot of money from a new technology—and instead he is offering it for free. His parents must have agreed, since he is a minor child. So they also are being very generous. Their child’s invention grew out of play. He is practicing the words from the Psalm to be led in the path of God’s commandments because it is delightful, turning his heart to God’s word and away from selfish gain.
That is being perfect, like Jesus.
Rather than worry about all the rules, which change with time and location and community, we should listen to the poet Hafiz.
“Every child has known God
Not the God of right and wrong,
Not the God of laws and rules,
Nor the God who has ever done anything weird,
But the God who knows only four words,
And keeps repeating them, saying,
"Come, Dance with Me.
Come, Dance with Me."
Jesus, I believe, is not calling so much for us to act in perfect ways, which none of us are able to do consistently, but to be perfect in our hearts, to desire to be the best that we can be, to love each other and to love God. We are called to have the kind of heart Jing-Mei has in The Joy Luck Club. We are called to have the Best Quality Heart.
There will always be many rules to follow, but the most important one is to remember we are all one with God. We are all part of the community of the creation. We are asked to love each other in the same way that God loves us. In the Psalm that is part of the lectionary readings today, the King James translation of line 40 is: “quicken me in thy righteousness.” Bring God to life in our hearts. Let us dance with God, as he calls us into the community of creation with love.
Let us pray:
Oh Beloved, thank you for the great gift of the creation. Thank you for the gift of your love, and thank you for the gift in our hearts of the love we are able to feel for others. Thank you for the example we have of Your Perfect Being and for helping us to move towards that perfection within our own hearts. Most Merciful and Compassionate Being, give us Thy Great Goodness, Allow Your Loving Spirit to grow within us, Teach us to let go of our differences and Unite us in your Perfect Peace. Amen.
POETRY: (One of mine to start)
(previously published and copywrited)
Creation Story:
Woman’s Meditation
the angels dance
a kabalistic chant
across my body
and blood sings
ke-ther
mal-kuth
hod bi-nah
hokh-mah
net-zach
tza-doi
ye-sod
send my being
to the core
to the center
where I find
First Mother
in life in death
in the deep dark center
of the earth
She comes
and She’s hot
She’s passion
She fills
my belly
my bowels
my womb
Eve!
sends fire
up my spine
through my body
to my crown
RED orange yellow
GREEN blue indigo
purple
and white
white is all the colors
all the colors are white
they spill
in a fountain
from my crown
to the ground
absorbed
by the Mother
and renewed
in Her
clear and bright
my light
is a rainbow
I am filled with Eve!
she is
filled with me!
I send
my spirit
all the way
to the Moon
First Woman
in the full in the round
loving body
of the moon
She smiles
and she’s ice
She’s spirit
She touches
my crown
my mind
my tongue
Lilith!
Her breath
fills my lungs
frees my voice
sings my body
I see
starry night
wild moonlight
dark mystery
deepest
inner me
three times three
luna ecstacy
Rainbow Chakra
Wild Moonlight
they meet in the middle
they meet in me
Lilith
gives the blessing
of the fruit to
Eve
the seed of the fruit
is planted in me
watered by a snake,
the flower grows
a blossom opens
the jewel
in the heart
of the lotus
glows
Isis, Aphrodite,
Hecate, Inanna,
Kali, Boudicea,
Erishkagal
are revealed
in the jewel
at the heart of the lotus
that is born from the seed
of forbidden fruit
I am Eve!
living earth
rainbow chakra
I am Lilith!
wild moonlight
dark mystery
we are free
Blessed be the Goddess
and the mothers
and the daughters
and
Blessed be ME!
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